Worried about HIV

Originally Posted: 
Thursday, July 12, 2012
Question: 

Good day,

This past week I received unprotected oral sex from a male (hook-up) whose HIV status is unknown. During ejaculating, I noticed a tiny drop of blood on my penis. I had no cuts nor abrasions... which means the blood possibly could have come from his mouth. I know that he was brushing his teeth upon my arrival. When confronted, he did say that he was 'clean'...however, I am too paranoid and just anxious. Do I need to worry about anything? What if some blood seeped into my urethra? 
 
Is there a possibility of being exposed to the virus? 
 
I am very worried about HIV potentially being passed to me.
Answer: 

Hi there,

Thank you for using the AIDS Vancouver Helpline as your source of HIV/AIDS related information.

Receiving oral sex is considered a negligible risk activity for passing HIV from one partner to the other. This means that there has never been a reported or confirmed case of anyone ever acquiring HIV this way. That is because saliva is not a bodily fluid that can contain enough of the virus needed for transmission. Also an enzyme in saliva actually inhibits the virus from entering the bloodstream. Even if there was little blood present in the mouth there would have to have been very high levels of the virus in the blood for there to be an elevated risk to you.

It is highly unlikely that you could have acquired HIV from this encounter and would not require testing.  With that said, we do recommend that anybody who is sexually active receive regular STI (including HIV) tests for your safety, the safety of your partners, and your peace of mind. Depending on your preferences this may be on an annual, biannual, or every 3-4 month basis.

If you have any additional questions please feel free to contact us again.

Cheers,

Cameron

AIDS Vancouver Helpline Volunteer
E-mail: helpline@aidsvancouver.org
Phone (Mon-Fri 9-4pm): (604) 696-4666
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